Sometimes choices are the hardest of all. And what might seem even harder is not the choice itself but making it, especially if you’ve convinced yourself with something and believed it as if its life’s ultimate truth.
Like look, if you are like me and you’ve convinced yourself that Blue is the best color of all. It’s yes, blue is elegant, tranquil and unique, however, sometimes some stuff are better in pink.. or 7ata in black. It makes no difference except that, your belief in that particular case is no longer valid. So you keep pushing yourself and try to convince yourself that “Black” might be fine.. and something hidden deep inside of you can’t believe.. can’t tell you to make the choice this or that..
But sometimes its most horrible when it affects life issues. Not a T-Shirt or a bag. Not a pen or a book. Not even a car. Its life time decisions you feel you have to do.. and you have to choose..
Like look, if you are like me and you’ve convinced yourself that Blue is the best color of all. It’s yes, blue is elegant, tranquil and unique, however, sometimes some stuff are better in pink.. or 7ata in black. It makes no difference except that, your belief in that particular case is no longer valid. So you keep pushing yourself and try to convince yourself that “Black” might be fine.. and something hidden deep inside of you can’t believe.. can’t tell you to make the choice this or that..
But sometimes its most horrible when it affects life issues. Not a T-Shirt or a bag. Not a pen or a book. Not even a car. Its life time decisions you feel you have to do.. and you have to choose..
3 comments:
Life isa all about choices we make or don't make
you know what i believe to be the hardest thing about choices (specially life-time choices)? It is the compromise. You choose between 2 or more not-so-perfect solutions. Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages. You have to choose, put a score on every point of strength or weakness and come up with a "best-fitting" solution!
I experienced something of that sort when I had to choose between 2 jobs: The one I already had and some opportunity I felt like I wanted to pursue. They were in many points very opposites and I had to make the best choice so that I wont regret it afterwards. I did make a compromise and until now I have minimal regrets! Anyways, whenever the word choice comes up, I can only thing of one thing: Est7'ara!
@ag,
but the decision which or which.. is the problem.
@gjoe,
how so wisely said.. :)
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