Thinking out and loud, going through my blue mazes of life.
Saturday, October 21, 2006
The last to expect
After all that time, my father does not know me still
4 comments:
Anonymous
said...
If we don't know ourselves 100% how can we expect others to know us, or even how can we judge if they know us or not.
I know it feels bad when our beloved ones, don't know our inner, or in other words don't our deep desires and intentions, but we should try to care more about knowing ourselves, rather than how others percieve us.
I think most of the others even those the cloesest to us, see us through the eyes of their personal experiences, which by a way or another are different than our experiences, this is why it difficult for them to see our inside the way we see it.
however, you can't quit being shocked if its your "A..B..C"s and your dear didn't figure it out yet after all that time, and after living everyday and night together under tha same ceiling!!! vlk
Blue , I must say I totally agree with "Nan", after living with my parents for 31 years, I discovered they see me as they want to see me not as I really am. And they never change their point of view. We only have to deal with them the way they are and never try to change them they will never change you can only be adapted to them.
4 comments:
If we don't know ourselves 100% how can we expect others to know us, or even how can we judge if they know us or not.
I know it feels bad when our beloved ones, don't know our inner, or in other words don't our deep desires and intentions, but we should try to care more about knowing ourselves, rather than how others percieve us.
I think most of the others even those the cloesest to us, see us through the eyes of their personal experiences, which by a way or another are different than our experiences, this is why it difficult for them to see our inside the way we see it.
yes,,, i fully agree
however, you can't quit being shocked if its your "A..B..C"s and your dear didn't figure it out yet after all that time, and after living everyday and night together under tha same ceiling!!!
vlk
Well, join the club, honey! Yours after what, 22 years. I'm 33 and mine still doesn't know me. Dads!! Gotta love 'em just the way they are. Yup!
Nan
Blue , I must say I totally agree with "Nan", after living with my parents for 31 years, I discovered they see me as they want to see me not as I really am.
And they never change their point of view. We only have to deal with them the way they are and never try to change them they will never change you can only be adapted to them.
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